Disabled Mate Review - UPDATED Jun. 2024

UPDATED Jun. 2024
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We have been doing reviews for some of the best disabled dating sites out there for quite some time now and before we sank our teeth into this Disabled Mate review, we thought we had already seen everything. However, after spending a few days on this fantastic website, we realized that there is still plenty that the online disabled dating world has to offer.

First Impression

We realized that we were in for something special from the very moment we typed in the name of the website into our browser. We opened the website and it loaded pretty much instantly. Trust us, we have seen plenty of dating websites that take ages to load and it kills your enthusiasm from the get-go. Not Disabled Mate.

We then realized that this website offers a much more comprehensive experience than most other dating websites. Their welcome page, for one thing, is gorgeous, informative and provides you with everything you need to know about the website. It also has a number of beautiful photos and a welcome text that will get you in disabled dating mood in no time. However, our Disabled Mate review could not end there.

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Design and Functionality

We got wind of the Disabled Mate design and functionality by simply logging on the website. The welcome page showed us that the people behind this website know everything there is about design and that they know how to make their members feel comfortable. Once we created our free profile, we logged in to make sure this is true for the bulk of the website as well.

The sleek, cheerful design is maintained throughout the website and it makes for a very comfortable dating experience. The design is predominantly white and almost too barebones. After a while, however, you realize that this is one of the most modern dating site designs that you have seen and you realize that you are seeing web design future being put to use on a dating website.

The loading times are lightning-quick and technical problems are non-existent. The website was developed by someone who knows their stuff and it feels like a perfectly oiled machine throughout the entire experience.
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Like the majority of modern dating websites, Disabled Mate is also light on the features, streamlining the experience so that it yields the best results for its members.

Disabled Mate allows you to create your profile, packed with photos and personal videos, of course, and then it is time to start checking out other members and their personal profiles. Once someone catches your eye, you can send them a flirt or start off with a message straight away.

There is also a great search engine built into the website, as well as a chat section. While doing research for this Disabled Mate review, the chat was still in its beta phase, but it seems that they are moving in the right direction. In the months to come, it will become a full-fledged feature of the website and we cannot wait to see how it will work.

When you upgrade your profile and become a paid member, you can also see who checked your profile in the past and who showed interest in you. This can be of great help if you think someone a bit shy might be just what you were looking for.

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The best part of doing this Disabled Mate review was meeting amazing people. To be perfectly honest, we kept coming back to talk to our friends long after we had all the necessary info to write this review. The people on Disabled Mate are so very open about their experiences and disabilities and those members who are not disabled themselves are all very understanding and super cool.

At the moment, the membership base is somewhat limited, but with new people joining the site every day, it is bound to grow. And quickly.

Closing Word

Disabled Mate is one of the most modern disabled dating websites we have seen. It is still in its early days, but it is already more than worth your attention. It is a website with a very, very bright future.

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User Reviews (19)

Disabled Mate customer rating based on 19 user reviews.

The Disabled Mate reviews listed below reflect the opinions and experiences of real users and are in no way influenced by the dating site reviewed here. Before publishing each review, our team checks whether it was submitted by an actual user in an effort to prevent false or spammy reviews.

  1. Marvin | March 11, 2023

    Super awesome website!! I just wish it wasn’t so quiet sometimes. We need more people on there! Get on it peeps!!!!

    This saying above is true and the issue is that the site doesnt let those who are free members to talk at all. What should be done is let the paid members pay for the one who doesnt want to pay so that we can engage in conversation. send a notification that someone wants to talk to you and you can pay for them to send messages. The site thinks all disabled people are middle class and above, but most disabled people are lower middle class and cant afford. The business is thinking backwards to achieve its financial goals.

  2. E K | March 21, 2022

    It wouldn’t even let me in. After hitting the button to do so,I got a page saying my profile (what profile?) needed to be reviewed. Customer service was no help.

  3. RMccull | August 9, 2021

    Like the other sites it is free to create your profile and post it, if you want to read responses you have to pay.
    There’s no such thing as a free ride.

    It is a nice site. Its functional. Fast. And seems to have have a lot new members daily. There are a lot of weirdos. I do not understand the previous review stating shecwas denied because she/he wass not disabled. Not all are disabled, the site has people who are disable friendly/understanding.

    A negative of the site is the bylines saying “see complete profile” but the profile is blank.

    Also pictures are supposedly approved but are clearly not as some are so blurry you cannot tell what they are etc.

    I am not sure mail notifications work. I havent gotten mine. I also have sent notices to about fifteen men who have not been to the site in weeks. I can only assume they are not getting email notices either.
    In the 2+ weeks I’ve been a member I have sent over two dozen notices but have only heard from two that were online when I sent them.
    I’m not too hopeful 🙁

  4. Zerymae | April 27, 2021

    Im simple person living with a simple im from philippines im looking for serious love here no matter what i will accept him and love him.

  5. Deshawn Sydney | February 15, 2021

    I joined the site and soon found out there’s nothing going on there. The few people who could be prospects haven’t been on in over a week. I sent several flirts and messages no ones replied because they’re not logging in, I suspect for the same reason I canceled my subscription. They need to do more to help disabled people and not frustrate us.
    I’ve gotten absolutely nothing for my 27 dollars.
    Very dissatisfied with this site.

  6. Leon Williams | January 5, 2021

    They won’t let me finish my profile

  7. Ellen Goodwin | October 3, 2020

    I’m new to online dating and i willing to try new things. I’m 45 years old woman, looking for true love.. age and location means nothing to me. good conversation and connections mean alot to me. my contact is ellen.goodwin001 at g mail .come. Please am not desperate for love or relationship. keep the emails coming lol.

  8. Sophia | September 25, 2020

    Am good to love

  9. Deborah | September 17, 2020

    Not free, spent time filling out everything then bam pay up before you can enjoy Very Misleading

  10. BrianJ | August 28, 2020

    Disabled Mate and all the associated sites are beasically a scam. A great deal of the profiles are fake, a quick Google image search will reveal where the fake profile pics truly belong to. But you cannot do anything here without paying, The owners also send you fake messages, then you think someone is interested in you but you have to pay before you can see the messade, which turns out to be one that is autogenerated.

    An utter scam. Stay well clear.

  11. David | July 4, 2020

    You can’t even contact anyone without paying. The “free” version only lets you make a profile and search your area, but there’s no way to get in touch with anyone without paying.

  12. craig cooper | June 25, 2020

    There is not many girls in my area to choose from. Also, a lot of them don’t even leave photos.

  13. Becker Morris | June 20, 2020


  14. noname | November 22, 2019


    I am a real woman who was basically thrown off and banned here because my photos don’t ‘match’ what their idea of a disabled person should look like. I have invisible illness and this is called discrimination. I am not a scammer – but the irony is they allow real scammers on the site! So ‘hey baby if you’re horny text mee’ doesn’t raise any eyebrows but my 100% legit account is removed because I look ‘too young’ and there are ‘inconsistencies’ whaaat. I don’t appreciate being called a liar.

    I’m very isolated, have valid issues and was looking to chat with others who might be in a similar situation. Instead I was treated with discrimination here. Ironic.

    This supposedly inclusive site is waay more elitist than abled sites.

    Tried signing up here twice actually…the first time they just denied me outright, the second time I was able to establish an account and added all of my details, only to have my profile removed a little while…then I was called a literal fraud

  15. Jimmy Jones | September 18, 2019

    Super awesome website!! I just wish it wasn’t so quiet sometimes. We need more people on there! Get on it peeps!!!!

  16. Mamacita | June 11, 2019

    I stumbled upon disabledmate.com by accident one night when I was googling for some relationship advice for people with disabilities. I was hesitant at first but decided to give it a shot. After I realized it wasn’t some bogus site, I set up a profile and started receiving messages and flirts almost immediately. It’s flattering when so many people want to be your friend and talk to you. I’ve even had a few naughty proposals so it’s definitely a lot of fun!

  17. Heisenberg1984 | April 15, 2019

    I love disabledmate.com, period. I think it’s a great website for disabled folks to meet someone special. I have been on a couple dates so far and it’s been great. All the best!

  18. Kahleesi90 | February 15, 2018

    So much love in here <3 I expected to find people who understand me but I found much more, real friends and great guys who find me beautiful and funny and just make me feel so good about myself <3

  19. SweetStrawberry | May 11, 2017

    I almost gave up on dating sites because when people found out about my disability, they would always just focus on that and lose interest in dating me and it hurt. On DM, I don’t have to go through that conversation and I don’t have to fear rejection every single time. There are actually guys who want to date me and don’t ask stupid questions. I honestly like it here and even if I don’t find someone special, its worth it just to have good and smart people to talk to.

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